I am an old fashioned girl in many ways, my conservative values are being uprooted. I like to be free but —
I think that a few dates to get to know a guy is pertinent to understanding he and you.
But all these guys don’t want to put in the effort. They want you in bed, before you’ve said your name and basic details.
They want sex, primarily, you’re just a pretty face. Where are the guys who put effort into making a girl feel special and valued?
I’m a feminist, and I want to be equal to men; it seems we’re not. We’re still objectified.
But impressing a girl, and having fun together it’s important. I’m for slow beginnings, to build roots. I’m for midnight laughter and sharing parts of yourself in your head first.
Where are the men who care about you as a person and like to talk to you? Where are the guys who don’t want to only hook up, but actually go on a few dates first.
I think if you think, I’m going to sleep with you; I should like you a lot and know you enough that I’m comfortable with you. Sex changes everything.
Why should I sleep with some random guy? I want him to be invested in our relationship. I want more then a night. One night stands never go well.
But I’m old fashioned and girls almost half my age just give sex away; never thinking that they’ve lost intimacy somewhere along the way; that the owed a guy nothing.