Things Are How They Are


It has been a tough two weeks. This week I made a friend who turned out to be a fake and only wanted one thing. It’s understandably difficult for me making friends my age so it was a bit disappointing after all this talking to have the relationship come to nothing. Some people are disappointing but they are who they are I guess.

I struggled withe break up with A. We made up and then broke up again all in the expanse of one week. But I finally feel right again having painfully worked through our issues, this time I hope for good. Nothing worth having is ever easy and I feel that we are both stronger because of our difficulties. I don’t know how many couples break up and get back together a bunch of times, I am told. But I guess this is weird for couples who just stay together to understand. But I feel now our relationship has direction and that A will treat me a lot better. Having him home going to school helps a lot right now. Because sometimes I think distance creates problems between us but I’m told since he takes my good and bad, I too have to accept his good and bad. I think I can work harder at doing that.

I was so busy going to a doctors appointment on Tuesday and then off to Winner’s because I’m really trying to organize the space I call my room. There is still vacuuming, dusting, and organizing to do but I organized my scarves, jewelry, and got a new duvet and cozy flannel sheets with Christmas gift cards. There is so much left to do I wish I could do more at once.

Wednesday was the dentist and I was just exhausted after. And today I ended up staying up too late chatting with said bad friend and was exhausted even more by 2 am when I finally fell asleep. Today I woke up at 11 am and didn’t get much done. I fell down the stairs yesterday and am so bruised up I am moving like an elderly women. I did do my nails. I love bubble gum pink by Quo Orely and got a non chip top coat to help it last on my fingers in the same brand.

I am going to dinner with A tomorrow after his class and that will be so nice. In the day I plan to relax and clean up a few more things in my room. The next week I have to go visit my Great God Mother Evelyn at the hospital and I’m looking forward to some Winter Fest at the U of A with a couple friends.

Cheers all!

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5 thoughts on “Things Are How They Are”

  1. I am glad that you and A and I am going to call him Alex because I hate letters for names and besides, I have a grandson named Alex (and he is handsome and in the Navy — but also married). So I am glad you and Alex got back together if that is what you want and I truly hope you both work out the problems that drove you apart in the first place. Enjoy your weekend!! ((Hugs))) PJ

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  2. Wishing you the best with A! Hoping your sore body gets better, glad you didn’t hurt yourself any worse after you fell down the stairs. Sorry about your bad friend, I know how that can hurt. Its their loss! Hugs!

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  3. Thanks Joy! I went out to dinner with A and had this 2 scoop gelato sundae with candied pecans and hot salty carmal. It put everything in perspective. That sundae was so good it just made the world seem brighter and everything less challenging. Funny how good food can do that!

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